Only You · onlyou.me
Your account and your story are yours. You can ask us to delete them at any time, and we will.
To delete your Only You account and its associated data, email us from the address on your account:
Please send the request from the email you signed up with (or tell us the name on your profile) so we can verify it's you. We confirm and complete the deletion within 30 days, usually much sooner.
You can also request deletion inside the app from the Profile tab, where available.
A limited amount of data may be retained after deletion where the law requires it or to prevent fraud and abuse:
| Data | Retention after deletion |
|---|---|
| Profile, photos, matches, messages | Purged within 30 days |
| Fraud / safety / abuse records | Kept only as required to keep the community safe |
| Legal & compliance records | As required by law (up to 7 years) |
If you'd rather step away without losing your account, you can ask us to hide your profile instead of deleting it — you'll be removed from discovery and no one will see you, but your data is kept so you can come back. Just mention "hide only" in your email.
Contact privacy@onlyou.me and we'll help.